Resistance To Change | Is It Still Possible To Have Everything You Want?

by Attraction Marketing on January 3, 2013

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Resistance To Change

Resistance To Change | Is It Still Possible To Have Everything You Want?

 

A dip in the economy can be the easiest time to become successful (if you know how, that is).

It’s common to hear about the poor quality of life nowadays. It’s all about tough times, unemployment peaks, and the weak state of the economy. That is why many no longer think that it is possible to succeed. It seems less likely to achieve dreams, which is why people are becoming less confident. As a result, (and this is only my opinion) people pay less attention to “personal development.” I think it should be the opposite.

I have been pondering “the success factor” for some time now and was finally able to nail it. I hope I am not the only one to have experienced this phenomenon. I am often afraid to act (or keep on acting), even when I have the tools and the knowledge on how to use them. It’s as if something on a physical level prevents me from doing the daily activities necessary to achieve my goals. Often I’m overwhelmed by my confusion and my lengthy to-do list. I am not able to work up enough motivation, confidence, and passion, which is why it has been difficult to take action and keep going.

Finally, though, I realized that it was not about knowing what to do. It was about getting myself to do it.

We each have an internal reality map of who we are and what is possible for us. This map is based on our beliefs and assumptions. Exploring the internal map and becoming aware of it is a prerequisite for dissolving any self-sabotaging beliefs. Once this prerequisite is fulfilled, the passion awakens along with qualities such as persistence, courage, and enthusiasm. Ideas start flowing from you. You start noticing opportunities your subconscious mind used to delete and distort. Now you are able to turn setbacks and disappointments into advantages. This all may seem cliché, but it is true!

Achieving goals is always about the underlying mental/emotional/spiritual mindset that allows us to discover (and passionately do) what needs to be done. The mindset is much more fundamental than the “nuts and bolts”. It is always about the “how to” vs. the “why to”. Here it is finally right in front of you: the real reason for your inability (and mine) to crack the success code.

I always listen to interviews with successful people. Almost all of them tell the story about how they did not know exactly what they were doing and how the “what to do” became apparent along the way. Again, the “how to” is not the problem. You will always figure it out. Creating and sustaining the passion and the persistence to do what you need to do is the challenging part. The right mindset always overpowers external conditions like the declining economy, the financial cliff, or anything else.

Don’t get me wrong here. You have to deal with the external conditions; however, if you have the right mindset, you will always figure out what to do regardless of whatever those conditions are.

I hope that you are feeling more confident about creating and having everything you want in life. This is why I focus on the mindset, conscious and unconscious mind, meditation, and other “out there” stuff. It’s the foundation, the “make it” or “break it” point.

Here in the video I am discussing the resistance to change. This is my favorite subject. I hope you receive my message regardless of my accent. If not, let me know. I can also do it in Bulgarian or Russian. Just kidding.

 

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Sylviane Nuccio January 3, 2013 at 4:35 pm

Hi Margarita,

You’ve really nailed it here and I can tell how much you understand the law of attraction.

When I am teaching people about the law of attraction I explain them something just like you’ve mentioned in this post. You can’t attract what you don’t focus on. Therefore, even if it happens to be near by you “wont’ se it” or “won’t notice it”. However, when you start getting your mind right (focused on what you want) you will finally “see” it, and opportunities will start showing up and usually in bunches.

The “how to” will always become evident in the end or at the right time, there is no need to wonder “how” we will get there, but only focus on the end result. It’s that focus that will show us the “how” when the right time comes.

Thank you for this very valuable information :)
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Attraction Marketing January 6, 2013 at 9:40 pm

Sylviane,

you are right on the spot. Opportunities are always around us. The problem is that out mind deletes, distorts and generalize information according to existing belief system. That is why I always joke that if we don’t see it it does not mean it is not there. :) Be blessed!
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Guy Manningham January 4, 2013 at 11:25 am

Change is not always a good thing, but it’s kinda like being in a relationship. If everyone else around you is telling you to change and you can’t see it, the problem is probably you. We need a lot of change in the world, but unfortunately it seems to be changing for the worse. Mark Twain once said, “Politicians are like diapers; they need to be changed often and for the same reason.”
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Attraction Marketing January 6, 2013 at 9:43 pm

Guy, thanks for visiting.

Change is not welcomed at all. We are consciously afraid of it, even for the better. Our relatives are always resisting (including our spouses). They know the old you, so it is a great threat to face someone they do not know.
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Sapna January 5, 2013 at 6:36 am

Hi Margarita,

Great Post, It is difficult to reach to such a level to start getting “What to do”. I have seen many people who are doing many things, infact they are all over the place, and couldn’t realize what to do to get the best. They probably don’t have the focus.Once What to do is realized it is comparatively easy to find out “how to do”.

Thought provoking as always.

Sapna
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Attraction Marketing January 6, 2013 at 9:46 pm

Sapna, thank for your post.

Clarity is the most important when change is inevitable. From the very beginning I used to ask my coaches what to do. Now I understand that it is a silly question. the real question is why do I want to do something. And there is no one to answer but me.
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Neamat Tawadrous January 5, 2013 at 12:13 pm

Hi Margarita,

Great Post Margarita. Indeed thought provoking.

Knowing the “WHAT TO DO” with the end goal in mind and FOCUS, will definitely lead to the “HOW TO”. But there are always struggles at the beginning until you find out “WHAT YOU WANT” to know how to focus and know the ropes of things and accordingly start to change and tweak things. We need to find out what motivates our sub-conscious mind as you said. Of course as you said, there is always a price to be paid for change.

I love the last statement you mentioned the “HOW TO” is 10% and the “WHY TO” is 90%, it is about the price.

Thanks Margarita for such a great value-packed post.

Be Blessed,

Neamat
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Attraction Marketing January 6, 2013 at 9:49 pm

Neamat,

thanks for stopping by. When we discover what motivates us, we have to be brutally honest. For example I discovered that I am motivated by pain. A “running away from” person. I do not like this, but this is the truth. So I have to work with this. You know, seeing things is not always pleasant. Now I understand the saying “Blessed are poor in spirit”.
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Donna Merrill January 5, 2013 at 1:04 pm

Margarita,
BRAVO! Wonderful Post!!!
We are creatures of habit and do stuff automatically. Consciously we do want to change but the only way we can do it is to be aware of the power of our subconscious mind.
Once we understand that the subconscious mind is very powerful, then we address that issue.
There are so many modalities to tap into the subconscious mind and trick it to work for you.
I once did an exercise where sitting quietly in a room with muscles all relaxed, and put a half smile on my face. I was feeling a bit down that day so this is why I did it. I had to “trick” my subconscious mind that I was happy. I kept thinking happy thoughts as I did it and VIOLA…my mood changed.
Just an example of how one can change the subconscious mind.
I love your blog! I will be coming back for more.

Donna
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Attraction Marketing January 6, 2013 at 10:00 pm

Dear Donna,

dealing with the subconscious mind is a great mastery. Sometimes I have the feeling that I am like a lion tamer. We must manage to use the power with the skills of the conscious. Very sophisticated game, you know.
I thought about something strange today. We, the living, are all heroes. We are the ones that decided to come here, taking the risk to forget who we are, and start discovering it all over.
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Mayura January 5, 2013 at 10:00 pm

Hi Margarita,

lol :D Can you do it in my native language – Sinhala? ;)

Love to see you on a video and you just nail it :)

Resistance to change. Hmm… Isn’t it we human beings always good at?

It’s really hard for someone to change their mindset for GOOD though it’s easy in words. People changing always, but the pathway is in question dear. However the point is mostly people waiting for something good happen to them. When it happens they overjoy, grateful to everyone around and do everything as never before. What if we can make each day like that? That’s why I really love you post here and application is what people lack of, obviously, for GOOD.

You know Margarita, we can keep calling the change we feel but still people need to take action. We can read 1000s of inspiration quotes, but unless we embrace, we just keep falling until we save ourselves. Even I can’t follow all at once but I try to take one thing at a time and make it a habit as it start to happen naturally as you mentioned in the video :) That’s so simple and very effective.

I really believe your video and post will help folks start thinking and get the feeling that this World is a better place to live :)

Have a GREAT weekend Margarita :)

Cheers…
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Attraction Marketing January 6, 2013 at 10:03 pm

Mayura,

you are right. Nothing happens without taking action. On the other hand, we cannot even experience our divine essence without having a body. You see, it is all connected into one thing. Action is the finalization of the creation in our minds. Without it the materialization (manifestation) cannot be completed.
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lisa January 6, 2013 at 7:58 am

It is amazing how powerful our minds can be and how positive thinking can make a change in us if we truly feel it. Of course people must want to change to be able to change. Too many are often afraid of change. Great video :)
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Attraction Marketing January 6, 2013 at 10:07 pm

Hey, Lisa,

thank you for the encouragement. Change is a food for the fear. But when we dig into it and actually see it from aside, it is easier to manage. The problem comes with our loved ones. They do not want us changed. I am thinking about a book, The dream giver by Bruce Wilkinson. it was his mother that resisted his growth. And he chose the dream. He did not chose his mother. It is a very painful act.
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Adrienne January 6, 2013 at 8:54 pm

Bravo Margarita,

You nailed this subject and like Sylviane said, you know your stuff.

I love learning about personal development when it’s explained to me in “human” terms. Not fancy words that I don’t even know what they mean but by giving us examples like you’ve shared here. You just explained this so well.

A lot of the times we are the ones standing in our own way. Because most people don’t understand how the subconscious mind works we continue to sabotage ourselves constantly. I have learned in the last five years that if you really do want something bad enough and you believe in yourself and that it can be yours, it will find a way. It just doesn’t work on our timetable which is why so many people throw their hands up and say it doesn’t work.

Thank you for sharing this wonderful message with us all. I’m loving your posts.

~Adrienne
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Attraction Marketing January 6, 2013 at 10:12 pm

dear Adrienne,

yes, our ego wants everything to happen under it’s terms. Especially on the timeline of choice. The problem is that we do not have true understanding of time and space. In our minds, time in the future is infinite. Well, we are set up for a surprise. When we let go of the need to control when and what is going to happen, then we open our channels to the wisdom of the universe.
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